Saturday, July 31, 2021

Remembering the Dragon

If you were a child growing up in the 80s in HDB estates, a walk down memory lane would bring back fond memories of running free at the neighbourhood playground. Hair plastered to your head, sweat trickling down your temples as you move from one point to another, jostling with other five, six or even ten-year olds for your turn.

I think I was five when I moved to our apartment block at Marsiling Drive from one of the last vestiges of kampungs at Jalan Kechot. Playing downstairs was a privilege, after doing my bit of studying or household chore. I would either shout from my second floor balcony to tell my friends that I was coming down or give a quick call on our green push-button Telecoms issued phone to make a play date.

It never occurred to me that the playground that I loved would be one of the most iconic ones in Singapore – the Dragon playground. Perhaps, the affinity I have with it is because I am a Dragon myself, well, at least according to the Chinese Zodiac. Coincidence aside, I became very attached to this place that brought me joy for over four years.

Designed by Mr Khor Ean Ghee, it had a majestic orange tiled head and a steel skeletal spine that ran all the way down to its tail. At the head, a concrete slide was attached. Not that smooth to play on but it still felt good to race down as the wind whooshed through your hair.

Like a train, we would scuttle up from the tail and traverse on the gapped spine, careful not to get a foot stuck in between. At the middle, at approximately four metres high, you felt like you were the king of the world, looking down on your petty subjects, scurrying around beneath you. Move a few metres more, we would then slide down. Scuttle up – traverse – slide. That pattern could be repeated a whole afternoon.

The playground itself was on a raised sand pit. Most of us would kick off our slippers once we climbed up. I loved digging my toes in the sand. That was the closest thing we could get to the beach those days. At times, we would step on a stray pebble or fragment of twig, but no major damage was done. Of course, we were circumspect when we encountered a patch of wet sand. It could have been an offering from the friendly neighbourhood cat! There was the occasional scraped knee from falling down in a game of ‘catching’ or ‘police and thief’ but that would be a badge of honour.

A favourite value-added game of mine was hopscotch. We would find a free spot somewhere on the sand pit and draw in the lines with an errant twig. I can still remember the exhilaration of jumping on one foot and making it to home base.

Then, there was 'shooting marbles'. The tomboy that I was, I would often play this with the boys, having my own pouch of marbles. These would be placed in a circle drawn in the sand. The aim was to oust as many marbles belonging to your opponent. The clacking sound of your marble, pushing others out was music to my ears.

Another thrill was spinning on the merry-go-round. Eight to ten of us would pile up, some sitting, squatting or standing on the edge, hands gripped so tight on the handles, our knuckles turned white. Someone on the outside would then push and get it moving at such incredible speeds, I would imagine we would just be a blur of colour to any Mummy who would be brave enough to watch. There would always be this one daredevil who would jump off on purpose. A nasty egg-sized bump on the head was surely his early lesson in Physics.

In 1985, I moved to Bedok, a very new estate with barely any children my age. The playground there paled in comparison. A simple structure with something to climb and a pair of swings. I chose to lose myself in books instead. By the 1990s, the HDB neighbourhood playgrounds, with their plastic modular set ups replaced the sand pits and concrete structures. Yes, they were safer and perhaps more hygienic. However, none could match the pleasure and adventure to be had on that dragon.

Saturday, June 10, 2017

Prison


It's been a while since I wrote any form of poetry or free verse. I don't know whether it's from the lack of pain or need. This one's more like a musing of some sort. And the question still remains as to whether I should break out of it.

Monday, August 29, 2016

F1 Bus Racers Oooops Sorry Bus Drivers

This rant has been a long time coming. For a couple of years, I feel nervous sometimes when I am on board a public bus and the driver either thinks he's an F1 racer or recently got his licence.

For the first lot, it really freaks me out. I seriously feel unsafe, especially when we're on neighbourhood roads and he makes a tight corner or steps on the accelerator. My insides actually jump!

The second lot, has issues with changing gears I think. I am no driver, but it is really annoying when the bus makes sudden lurches and jerks. It is particularly bad for us who are standing. We have to grip the poles or those handles for our dear lives or lose our balance and smash into the next person beside us or worse, fall flat on the bus floor.

I wonder what is the criteria for being hired.

Perhaps, they need to be audited from time to time and their performance assessed…by incognito inspectors.

Whatever it is, I'll keep my hand on the pole, even if I have to wrestle for some hand space! (which happens often unfortunately)

Wednesday, December 02, 2015

Fabulous At 40

So I turn 39 today. Nothing fancy, nothing noteworthy except for this recollection of a conversation I had with Saz, maybe last year. We talked about the sad state of our physical fitness and well-being. She spoke of her dream…to be fabulous at 40.

When she uttered that phrase, it kind of hit home. That could be a shared vision for her, myself and even the Anjels. It lingered at the back of my mind. But now that I'm at the end of my thirties, the urgency is there.

My last round of visioning was in my 20s. How time flies so fast. I have been questioning my life again, of late, second guessing my choices and decisions. Although I don't wish to compare, it is kind of hard not to.

I need to take some time to reassess and evaluate. I need to make sense of my life yet again.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Rouse


Eventhough I came from a wedding, and had helped myself to the luxurious buffet spread, I mustered the courage to meet up with the Anjels at Rouse. A much talked about or heard about happening place of late, we thought we'd give it a try.

Its minimalist decor, was magnetic, as was the uber cool, almost trip hop music they were playing. I fell in love with the up-cycled door that was transformed into the table we sat at. The metal chairs weirdly enough were to my liking as well.

The food…was rather similar to La Maralle in their concept. Easy to prepare, easy to consume fare. Appreciated the free flow of iced water, placed strategically behind me. I enjoyed the food enough. 


                                  

                                   

                                                  

                                   

                                      

                                           

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Mirae - Jo Gook

I am not letting go of you.
Even when I die, I won't let you leave my heart.
Go as you wish.
But no matter where you go after this,
no matter where you live or who you are with,
you will always have two homes.
Here, in here, you have a room here.
In this room, you and I will grow together.
I will never let you go.
That's what I want you to know.

Shin Mirae to Jo Gook



Serial K-drama Non-Finisher

Well I've decided to finish up my unfinished Korean dramas. Over the years, I've become a serial K-drama non-finisher (for lack of a better term). These are dramas that I started watching as fillers while waiting for the highly anticipated ones to be aired, and those that I kind of lose interest in as they progress.

Ticked these off my list these past couple of weeks:

- My Love Madame Butterfly (My first ever complete family drama - 51 episodes!)
- Missing You (Got rather painful so left it for a while after watching 10 episodes straight but loved it)
- My Girlfriend Is A Gumiho (Just okay in the end)
- City Hall (Actually loved this but got stuck at episode 14 for the longest time)

And I have 15 or so more to go! Fighting!

Saturday, May 31, 2014

Paddington House of Pancakes

One look at the menu and I felt that I was in heaven on earth! And the place was called…


With what was to me a decent range of savoury and sweet pancakes, I was all ready to float or swim in them, whichever manner of enjoyment you prefer. We definitely took pleasure in the food, and we ordered several rounds. Couldn't seem to get enough. 

The place was packed and business was brisk. At one point, we noticed one of the staff who had gone out (he was kind of easy on the eye LOL) and came back with a grocery bag full of bananas! We might have contributed to the shortage! 





       

We were happy.